Are you restless as a result of your husband talking to another woman?? The tips in this video will help you.
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The topic is what to do when your husband is talking to another woman.
There are so many people sitting on this table.
You know it's very normal to become uncomfortable when your husband is talking to another woman.
That is not you, of course.
One thing that accompanies love is jealousy uh, even god is a jealous god.
He gets jealous when we worship other gods, so mostly women are accused and men accuse women of being too jealous.
But i'll say we are just like our father um.
It's only bad when the jealousy becomes too much and you become insecure.
As a woman - and you know you try to just keep a tabs on everything your husband do.
Of course you know everything that is too much is bad, so you should even know where to stop.
So one of the things that companies love is gender support when it becomes too much it's not school.
But what do you do when you discover that your husband is talking to another woman? It can make any woman uncomfortable.
Now i'm going to be giving you some points in this video um as to what you need to do, if your husband is talking to another woman, point number one make your findings.
First, just make sure you are not watching this video out of mess suspicions.
Of course, one thing you must understand the reason why i say should make your finding is this: your husband will surely talk to a woman that one is sure he could be in his office in the market.
In his business place he will talk to a woman.
So um, the thing is the only thing that gives people concern is when he begins to talk to a particular woman consistently or when he becomes more comfortable talking to the woman even more than you.
That is the wife that is where so many people have an issue.
So of course you can't avoid him talking to other women.
Your husband will do business with not just men.
He will surely do business with women he's going to be meeting women when he goes out, sometimes even going out with his boss or his business partners.
They meet with women every day.
So the thing is you can't totally rule out your husband talking to another woman.
So, let's first of all, find out make your findings and make sure he is really doing the wrong thing and if he's not, there's no reason to be afraid of anything.
Okay, you don't have to be afraid and in making your findings make sure you are not always.
You know, suspecting him monitoring him.
You are always picking his phone to know the person he's talking to know in making findings.
What i mean is you need to be sure that okay, the person he's talking to there's nothing really attached because trust me.
Sometimes they may talk to a woman and there's no emotional feeling attached and you end up assuming unnecessary things that are not real.
Okay, i was watched a comedy video where a woman walked into her bedroom.
I saw and saw two people making love and she took everything and started hitting them only to discover that it was the parents from the husband's parents that came visiting and they were just kind of maybe borrowing their bedroom.
So you know before jumping into an assumption.
Make sure you are very sure: okay, let's not be falling our hands on this and unnecessarily make sure you are very, very sure, make your findings and you are sure that no this talk is beyond normal talk.
It's going out of hands.
Um is always chatting with her he's, always calling her.
They are always smiling.
They are always chatting and he's not he's not like he's carrying me along in this chat.
Okay, if his family friend and all of us are friends we are talking together, is better, even if we know some of that can be risky too.
We are talking it's better, but this was not like i'm in the picture, but you're always in the phone with her.
You discuss important issue with her.
You know it's carnival starts from normal talk to.
I love you text messages from the woman or from your husband to the woman, so be sure make your findings first now.
The second thing you want to do.
If your husband is talking to another woman, you need to find out.
What exactly are they talking about? Are they talking business? Is it yeah? Are they talking career? What are they talking about because it's not just talking what they are talking about is very, very important as much as the talking.
So you want to find out what they are talking about.
The top thing you need to do is don't be too quick to accuse him.
Okay, like i said in every relationship, assumption is dangerous and as options make, you sometimes believe things that are not even existing or it just is just a cooked up story in your head.
So don't be too quick to accuse him and make sure you are not having wrong assumption.
So if you are not sure, don't be too fast to act, take your time to really started study um the situation to know whether he's really trying to do something fishy or not.
Then the first thing you want to do one of the best ways to clear up any form of assumption is to ask questions in asking these questions.
You need to use wisdom too, because in asking some people try to make it like they are in investigating or interrogating demand.
If you make it look like you're, interrogating or investigating him, and you come out very, very harsh and you're attacking him.
Why are you cheating on me? Who is this person? You are chatting with trust me? The man will withdraw, he may become defensive, and sometimes some men may go as far as pushing it on you.
They start quarreling.
A woman once told me that she asked her husband about um an affair or something talking to another person and the master said asking what gave you the right to go through my phone, so what they try to do is they try to get defensive or they Try to push the blame, they push the blame on you.
Okay, so always make sure you ask about it and in asking don't just be asking and you are throwing tantrums and you are just looking for a fight to pick no in asking listen.
Okay! I don't understand, maybe i'm just over thinking it - you can act this way.
Who is this person? You are consistently chatting with, of course, i'm a little bit uncomfortable because she's, a woman, don't you think your child with eyes becoming too frequent? So, if you ask this way now, the next thing you want to do is listen to him.
Give him listening ears.
Let him explain himself, even if he lies at the end of the day, just pretend to listen to know.
What's the relationship between them, and why is he kind of comfortable talking with her that much now after asking him, you listen to him? Another thing you need to do is avoid being overprotective.
The next thing we mentioned after asking their husband is: they want to be over protected.
They stretch issues, he keeps his phone, you are picking it.
You are monitoring everything.
Who is that, if he's holding his phone, who are you chatting with if he wants to call i'm telling you this? Is you being overprotective, it will make the man gather his weapons against you he'll begin to do it secretly.
When he's out, he will talk, he will not know so.
Sometimes, even after asking him like that, you see him in his phone.
Don't come and be acting like a monitoring spirit.
Allow him to be just be asking questions, be talking, don't ask save just allow him when he goes when he's with his phone.
Don't act like you, don't care.
The next thing you want to do is when you find out, they are having a relationship or affair.
It's going to hurt you.
That is sure it will hurt you, of course, who wants to share their love with another person, especially if you trust them.
You invest into the relationship as much as you can when you find out that something is really going on.
It is going to affect you seriously affect you.
So it's going to hurt you what you need to do.
Is you just need to give yourself time to heal, because what people mostly do when they find out their partner is having an affair? Is they don't tend to believe it? Because maybe they really trust this person, and they don't believe that this person can go? This far or do these kind of things to them, you know they just want to react.
They want to you know it's going to hurt you.
You just have to take it easy on yourself now.
You must understand that, after giving yourself time to heal, you just have to forgive your hospital.
That's if you are married.
If you are not marriage, my dear will eat because if you are not married and he he cheats on you one two three times: it's not safe, it means, even if you get married, it's gon na get worse.
So if you're, if you're married, you need to work on forgiving, because the bible says in the book of proverbs that adultery destroys a man, so you must understand that sometimes most of them just go into it ignorantly.
So you need to just try to forgive.
Forgive forgiveness is not easy in forgiving him find out.
If it is a mistake, okay find out.
If it is a mistake on your part, okay, why did he don't have to cheat after everything is a woman? We say if it is sex i've given him if he's by looking good, i try my best to look good.
I do everything as much as possible to please this man, but he will still do what he wants to do so just find out.
If the mistake is on your part and what led to him to cheating, so what some women do, is they just try to like focus on the fact that the man betrayed them? Okay? Why did he do that? Is he a mistake on my part or it's more like his weakness, or is that what he does or is that his person? So if it is a mistake on his part - and you need to first of all as a woman, you must understand that sex doesn't keep it man.
The next thing you need to start working on is try improving yourself on other areas.
Outside bedroom be physically available.
Emotionally available, intellectually available, there's a rule, there's a there's, there's a rule or there's a level you attain in the life of a man that he doesn't easily discard you or she reasons to cheat on you.
So you need to step up on, not just the bedroom, of which i know that one two is a part of it.
If you know you're, not you're, not living up to that, you you step up and if, if if the bedroom is not a part of it, there's a way you can contribute into his life.
Morally, by advice: by standing by him, you contribute to his growth, okay, but the things you bring to the table, not just bad no, but the things you bring to the table is like no.
I can't lose this this one.
So after doing that, when you find out the fault, try to walk on the fault and work on forgiving him, okay, most times women try to want to fight which will take me to the very last point.
Women try to want to fight and drag.
You know make an issue out of nothing.
I always tell them there's no way you use fire to quench fire.
Okay, you can't use fire to quench fire, so you need to keep calm.
You don't have to use fire approach become okay.
Now, if he has mentors in his life, that's why i tell single people make sure the person you're going to be marrying has mentors not just financial mentors.
I'M talking about people who should model is standard for the man to follow.
You can talk to them and make sure his his mentor is not cheating too, because i don't know the example that mentor is going to pass across to him make sure he is not cheating too, and you know just you know, just talk to the mentor.
Let them call him to other and the reason why i'm saying you don't use fire is you may end up pushing him pushing him away, but one thing i tell women is this: there's nothing, god cannot change and there's, no one.
God cannot change.
So, if he's having issues consistently as regards talking to other women, you can only but pray for him.
Look for other things.
That'll make you busy to distract you from you know bothering yourself about all those unnecessary issues, because trust me, some of those issues, are unnecessary.
Pray for him and ask god to restore him back to you.
There's nothing! Trust me there's nothing! God cannot do so.
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You get to decide what's comfortable or not for your relationship. If you're comfortable with your husband texting another woman, there's no problem. But if it makes you uncomfortable, you should have a discussion with him about what you consider appropriate boundaries for your relationship.What to do if your husband is talking to other girls? ›
- Apr 29, 2023. 9 things to do when your husband talks to other women. ...
- Communicate. Talk to your husband about how you feel. ...
- Listen. Try listening to your husband's response without judgment. ...
- Trust. ...
- Set boundaries. ...
- Evaluate. ...
- Seek counselling. ...
- Take time for self-care:
You get to decide what's comfortable or not for your relationship. If you're comfortable with your husband texting another woman, there's no problem. But if it makes you uncomfortable, you should have a discussion with him about what you consider appropriate boundaries for your relationship.Should I confront the other woman my husband is texting? ›
Should I confront my cheating spouse? Talk to him about it, but stay calm. If you know for sure that your husband has been sending inappropriate texts, it's definitely a good idea to sit down and have a serious conversation about it. However, as angry as you might be, try to keep things civil.What to do when your husband confides in another woman? ›
- Learn as much as you can about this other woman. ...
- Try to see things from his perspective. ...
- Understand the context of the conversation. ...
- Don't blame yourself. ...
- Get to the bottom of the situation. ...
- Don't lead with accusations. ...
- Tell your husband how you feel. ...
- Take the wait and watch approach.
Micro cheating refers to acts of seemingly trivial, inappropriate behaviors that occur outside of one's devoted relationship, often done unintentionally.What is inappropriate flirting when married? ›
Expressing a romantic or sexual interest towards a person outside of your marriage is not only inappropriate flirting, but disrespectful. The spouse typically sees it this way unless you're in an open relationship in which seeking other partners is agreed upon as acceptable.Is it cheating to talk to another woman? ›
FLIRTING WITH OTHER WOMEN:
“Anything can be cheating if there's sexual intent, even just talking. For me, it's not about the action, it's about the motive. So if it's harmless flirting to simply make someone more at ease, then fine – not cheating. But if he's attracted to the woman he is flirting with then it is.”
Your husband has the right to text another woman, provided he is not cheating on you. If he has a female friend, he can text her when he wants, but he needs to ensure it doesn't affect the personal time he is spending with you.What attracts a married man to another woman? ›
Apart from being dissatisfied in his marriage, physical attraction may be one of the reasons a married man feels gravitated towards another woman. A man may also feel attracted towards another woman if she possesses qualities that his spouse does not. This could mean having a flourishing career, or common interests.
The Electronic Communications Privacy Act (ECPA) is a federal law that makes it a crime to access someone else's private communications without permission. It covers cell phones, computer use, email, social media accounts, and other types of electronic communications.How to get over your husband sexting someone else? ›
If you've found out your partner is sexting someone else, consider getting therapy together. Aside from unpacking your relationship dynamics, it can also: Help you work through the hurt and loss of trust you may be experiencing. Provide structure to help establish timelines and truths.Should I contact the woman my husband cheated with? ›
It's your call to take!
In some cases, reaching out may give you clarity, as well as an opportunity to tell the unknowing affair partner that your spouse is, in fact, involved in a marriage. In other cases, contacting the person your spouse cheated with creates additional drama and makes your hurt feelings even worse.
What Is Emotional Cheating? Emotional cheating is a type of infidelity where one partner shares emotional intimacy and connection with someone other than their partner. This connection crosses the boundaries of a healthy, platonic relationship and assumes a breach of trust within the primary relationship.Why does emotional infidelity happen in marriage? ›
Generally speaking, emotional cheating happens when your closeness to someone else disrupts your investment in your partner. You focus on the connection you have with them instead of on your existing (usually monogamous) relationship.What is stonewalling after infidelity? ›
Stonewalling is a total refusal to listen to, respond to or accept influence from your mate. If ever there was a time communication is critical, it's during the crisis of infidelity. Stonewalling doesn't necessarily end at refusal to speak or listen to your mate; it can also be listening with contempt or total distain.What to do if your husband has a wandering eye? ›
Don't try to "police" your partner's wandering eyes. If your partner's wandering eye creates a problem in your relationship, discuss the issue with them. Start with your own feelings, not with an accusation or criticism. Suggest couple's therapy or attend therapy on your own if your requests are continually ignored.What is unintentional cheating? ›
Micro-cheating is a term for small, sometimes unintentional actions that could be seen as minor infidelity. Examples of micro-cheating include talking to an ex on social media and lying about your relationship status to casual acquaintances.What is inappropriate behavior in a marriage? ›
Cruel behavior and actions that can fall under these grounds include: Verbal or emotional abuse. Acts of domestic violence. Inappropriate relationships with people outside of the marriage. Improper care of children.Why would a happily married man flirt? ›
According to the research, men flirt for six main reasons: to get sex, to explore what it would be like to be in a relationship, to strengthen a relationship, to try to get something, to increase self-esteem, and, well, to have fun.
Well, married men can flirt for a myriad of reasons such as: He wants to feel desired. He feels like his flirting is nothing over the line as long as he isn't hurting his wife. The thrill of being with someone new.What are the 4 stages of cheating? ›
For the betrayed spouse, stages of an affair being exposed can involve everything from denial, shock, reflection, depression to finally taking an upward turn.Why do guys talk to other females while in a relationship? ›
Not Getting Your Needs Met in Your Relationship Often, men seek out the affections of other women when they're not getting their needs met at home. They aren't feeling appreciated, or validated, by their wife or girlfriend. Many guys don't know how to identify those needs, and put words to them.What is emotional cheating texting? ›
Emotional infidelity texting is a form of cheating when you engage in intimate conversations with someone other than your partner. It can include sharing secrets, exchanging flirtatious messages, or even having an emotional affair online.How do I deal with a flirty husband? ›
- Identify the root of your spouse's flirtation. ...
- Don't put pressure on your spouse. ...
- Do be vulnerable. ...
- Remember it's your right to ask questions.
- Let your partner realise their own mistakes. ...
- Ask them questions about their texting. ...
- Listen to your partner. ...
- Talk about the underlying problems in your relationship.
Insecurity often leads men to seek validation from others outside the relationship. It's possible that he's feeling inadequate or like less of a man because of something that happened or because of his own past trauma. He may be looking for an ego boost by sexting someone else, even though he knows it might hurt you.Can a man cheat and still love his wife? ›
Here, experts explain this phenomenon and dispel other popular cheating myths. Fact #1: Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat. Men who cheat haven't fallen out of love; they've become unsatisfied with the current state of it.How do you know if a married man is jealous? ›
You might notice that he is suddenly putting himself out there to find a date. He makes an extra effort to look good, even when you want to hang out with the group. A jealous man talks about how all the ladies are flocking around him every chance, and he seems to be mirroring everything you do.How do you tell if a married man is a player? ›
- 1 The relationship revolves around his schedule.
- 2 He won't introduce you to his friends and family.
- 3 You can only contact him at specific times.
- 4 He won't go on dates with you.
- 5 He avoids talking about the future.
- 6 He doesn't open up to you.
Let's check it out: Shahzeen Shivdasani: Yes, technically checking your partner's phone without their permission is a breach of privacy.Is it OK to snoop on your spouse's phone? ›
So, is it OK to snoop through your partner's phone? The answer is almost never. In some cases, for instance, following a mistrust, there may be an agreement where you are given permission to look through the phone. This could be a way to rebuild trust but is usually temporary.Are text messages cheating? ›
Emailing and texting might not be physical cheating, but that doesn't mean you're free of blame. It could still be considered emotional infidelity a.k.a emotional cheating. And if you or your partner aren't emotionally committed to each other then you have to take a serious look at the future of your relationship.Can I divorce my husband for sexting? ›
Courts Say Sexting and Cyber Sex are Not Adultery
For one thing, all 50 states have enacted no-fault options, which allow you to get a divorce without proving that your spouse engaged in adultery or some other type of marital misconduct that caused your marriage.
The act of sexting can be consensual and is not itself a sign of abuse. However, an abuser could use photographs, videos, or messages shared through sexting to maintain power and control over you. For example, the abuser may later threaten to share these images or may actually share them with others.Is sexting healthy in a marriage? ›
While sexting is popular in short-term affairs, experts claim those in long-term relationships benefit most from it. This flirty form of communication, which includes sexually suggestive texts, photographs or videos, is useful for both long-distance partners and those who live together.How do I tell a woman to stay away from my husband? ›
Tell her directly that you know what's going on and that it needs to stop immediately. Don't threaten her even if you've done your research on legal ways to get revenge on the other woman and are well aware of your options. But let her know you're serious and that you're willing to fight to save your relationship.When should you leave a cheating spouse? ›
- Your partner doesn't apologize.
- Your spouse doesn't want to get counselling.
- Your partner doesn't show a desire to put in the work.
- They are still in touch with the person they cheated on you with.
- Your partner doesn't seem to commit to the relationship.
- They lie all the time.
People can only help you best once they know what the problem is. Being aware of the affair allows your friends and family to provide the care that's uniquely necessary for infidelity. Finally, telling other about the affair can simply relieve the burden of keeping it all to you.How do most affairs start? ›
Affairs usually begin with an attraction to someone you know fairly well, someone you spend time with each week — your friends and co-workers.
How long extramarital affairs last varies: about 50% may last between the period of one month to a year affair, long term affairs may last long-term, for about 15 months or more, and about 30% of affairs last about two years and beyond. Some even last for a lifetime.What causes a man to cheat? ›
A study of 495 people revealed eight key reasons: anger, low self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and circumstance. 1 It's important to understand that these reasons arise within the cheater and are not the responsibility of the betrayed partner.Should I divorce for emotional cheating? ›
The bottom line: This is all up to you. It is possible to rebuild trust after a betrayal, and it is also OK if you want to call it quits. You know your relationship better than anyone else, and you're the best judge of whether emotional cheating is grounds for divorce.Can a marriage survive emotional infidelity? ›
Yes. Your marriage can come back from emotional infidelity. “Marriages can not only survive emotional affairs, they can become stronger than they were prior to the affair,” says Dr. Dena DiNardo, a clinical psychologist and licensed marriage and family therapist from Philadelphia.What triggers after infidelity? ›
Things that can trigger flashbacks include spending time with your partner who cheated, romantic sounds, love stories, not hearing from your partner and sometimes they can just come out of the blue when you least expect it. Being betrayed by a loved one can often be traumatic.What are the stages of infidelity trauma? ›
- Denial. ...
- Anger. ...
- Bargaining. ...
- Depression. ...
- Acceptance. ...
- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) ...
- Final thought.
By working through the 3 stages of affair recovery—atonement, attunement, and attachment, couples can find healing from infidelity. If you're in a marriage where there's been infidelity, marriage counseling is going to be an important part of your healing process.What to do when your husband flirts with other girls? ›
If your husband is so keen on flirting with others, then try flirting with your husband instead. Don't give him the chance to go after others. Enchant him with your ways, words and actions. Bring that spark back into your marriage.How do I react when my husband flirts with another girl? ›
If you find out your husband is going “out-of-bounds” in his flirting with another woman, you need to talk honestly about it, ASAP. It's wise to talk about it with a counselor if your husband is not willing to answer your questions and won't explain why he feels he needs to flirt with other women.Can your husband be friends with another woman? ›
Partners absolutely can have friendships outside of the marriage – but it is important that these friendships not interfere with the marriage. I hope you and your husband can really talk about this. He should be transparent and reassuring, rather than dismissive or defensive.
A married man may flirt with other women because he's feeding a desire to be wanted and thinks he can get the attention he wants from you. He may seek confirmation that he is attractive to someone other than his wife or want to boost his self-confidence because he doesn't feel wanted by his wife.Is my husband flirting or being friendly? ›
A flirty guy will talk about his love life, best date, romantic nights, and related topics. The reason is to allow you to have a glimpse into his romantic side. If he is friendly: A friendly guy will talk about his interests, hobbies, work, etc. They will rarely mention anything related to their love life.Is it worth staying married to a cheater? ›
Experts like Nelson agree the only reason to stay with a cheating spouse is if he or she is deeply and genuinely sorry for the betrayal and willing to work for your forgiveness. This means they show they understand the pain you went through after learning about the affair, Dr.What is an example of harmless flirting? ›
This can mean buying a drink in a social setting, freely giving compliments, side arm hugs or other non-sexual touches, a platonic friendship. The term “harmless” is only applicable if you are willing to disclose this behavior (without shame or concern) to your partner.
- Outline your concerns about their behaviour. ...
- Do not enable their actions. ...
- Make yourself unavailable at all times. ...
- Share photos of your significant other (even if you don't have one) ...
- Report their flirtations to the boss.
There are several reasons why your husband might look at other females online, such as addiction, dissatisfaction in the relationship, curiosity, or seeking an escape.Can a married man love another woman apart from his wife? ›
Can a married man love another woman? You may be asking, “can a married man fall in love with another woman?” If so, the answer is a resounding yes. And a married woman can fall in love with another man too! Naturally, there are all the other possible combinations.Can married man be friends with single woman? ›
Many individuals may disagree on whether married individuals can be friends with someone who isn't married. Although there is not necessarily a set "rule" about who you can be friends with, many married people have unmarried friends, regardless of gender or sexuality.What if your husband has a girl best friend? ›
Your boyfriend has a girl best friend and there's nothing wrong with it. You may feel jealous but you should be able to respect their friendship, unless it's harming your relationship. Friends are important to have in your lives and your boyfriend shouldn't have to let go of theirs because of your insecurities.